Comments for Youth Advice http://www.youthadvice.org.uk get the information you need Fri, 09 Dec 2011 01:44:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on How many pro lifers would make this deal to lower the abortion time limit? teens temp sterilised. pope=lesbia by Katie http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4756 Katie Fri, 09 Dec 2011 01:44:31 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4756 two questions back at ya What if teenagers don't want to be sterilised? Don't they have human rights? Why would someone want to be figurehead of a religion that condemned them? Don't think you have really thought this through. What a surprise. LOL two questions back at ya

What if teenagers don’t want to be sterilised? Don’t they have human rights?

Why would someone want to be figurehead of a religion that condemned them?

Don’t think you have really thought this through. What a surprise. LOL

]]> Comment on How many pro lifers would make this deal to lower the abortion time limit? teens temp sterilised. pope=lesbia by horneydee http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4755 horneydee Fri, 09 Dec 2011 00:44:42 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4755 i am a catholic but i gotta say that some people are just hypocritical,i totally agree with your way of thinking,people who take religion to far are giving the rest of us a bad name.to those going on about no abortions no sex before marriage no contraception,what would you do if your daughter ended up in one of these situations would you disown them? my grandad is one of the most religious men i no he wont even step foot in a registry office! but when i got pregnant at 17 not in marriage ended up a single parent he excepted my,isnt gods love suppose to be for all and unconditonal? (i got an ear bashing tho lol think that was more the grandad role than religion),how do you no all these without being in that sit,(by no means am i saying your views are rubbish just i dont not agree with them).xx i am a catholic but i gotta say that some people are just hypocritical,i totally agree with your way of thinking,people who take religion to far are giving the rest of us a bad name.to those going on about no abortions no sex before marriage no contraception,what would you do if your daughter ended up in one of these situations would you disown them? my grandad is one of the most religious men i no he wont even step foot in a registry office! but when i got pregnant at 17 not in marriage ended up a single parent he excepted my,isnt gods love suppose to be for all and unconditonal? (i got an ear bashing tho lol think that was more the grandad role than religion),how do you no all these without being in that sit,(by no means am i saying your views are rubbish just i dont not agree with them).xx

]]> Comment on How many pro lifers would make this deal to lower the abortion time limit? teens temp sterilised. pope=lesbia by zeppelin_roses http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4754 zeppelin_roses Thu, 08 Dec 2011 23:47:22 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4754 haha I like it I think it appears the pontiff's sexuality is more impotrant to some Christians than the caring of a foetus haha I like it

I think it appears the pontiff’s sexuality is more impotrant to some Christians than the caring of a foetus

]]> Comment on How many pro lifers would make this deal to lower the abortion time limit? teens temp sterilised. pope=lesbia by C Sunshine http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4753 C Sunshine Thu, 08 Dec 2011 22:57:28 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4753 God help us ALL. Those are a lot of "what if's"! And to answer your question? True pro-lifers do not make deals. They go according to God's Holy Word and preach the true gospel. May God bless you with wisdom. God help us ALL. Those are a lot of “what if’s”!

And to answer your question? True pro-lifers do not make deals. They go according to God’s Holy Word and preach the true gospel. May God bless you with wisdom.

]]> Comment on How many pro lifers would make this deal to lower the abortion time limit? teens temp sterilised. pope=lesbia by joe d http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4752 joe d Thu, 08 Dec 2011 22:39:25 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4752 Do it. Although they should not have a time limit just get rid of it all together. But this is a good no great plain. Do it. Although they should not have a time limit just get rid of it all together. But this is a good no great plain.

]]> Comment on How many pro lifers would make this deal to lower the abortion time limit? teens temp sterilised. pope=lesbia by SDC http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4751 SDC Thu, 08 Dec 2011 22:19:20 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/how-many-pro-lifers-would-make-this-deal-to-lower-the-abortion-time-limit-teens-temp-sterilised-popelesbia#comment-4751 I am not making a deal unless it is with God! This deal sounds like making a deal with Satan! You don't compromise one sin for another to make other people's lives easier. How about you ask people lets make a deal on trying to eliminate all sins for the peace of this world?? I am not making a deal unless it is with God! This deal sounds like making a deal with Satan!
You don’t compromise one sin for another to make other people’s lives easier. How about you ask people lets make a deal on trying to eliminate all sins for the peace of this world??

]]> Comment on Friends? ive a little worry id like advice on by Stacey:) http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/friends-ive-a-little-worry-id-like-advice-on#comment-4740 Stacey:) Thu, 08 Dec 2011 01:38:01 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/friends-ive-a-little-worry-id-like-advice-on#comment-4740 Well im in a different situation to you because im 15. All my friends have stopped going out because of school etc. To be honest all i want to do is go out and have a good time and such. I miss all our girly chats and make-up etc just having fun. Also i cant keep in touch with them much because ive moved house. Im in england now. Anyway, to your question, i know what you mean, if you talk to them they will not understand because they have their own lives etc. Simple you'll have to make new friends. Obviously keep in touch with your old ones, but ask them from time to time if they are not busy if they would like to go for a drink etc. If you smother them they will probably ignore you. Well im in a different situation to you because im 15.
All my friends have stopped going out because of school etc. To be honest all i want to do is go out and have a good time and such. I miss all our girly chats and make-up etc just having fun.
Also i cant keep in touch with them much because ive moved house. Im in england now.

Anyway, to your question, i know what you mean, if you talk to them they will not understand because they have their own lives etc. Simple you’ll have to make new friends. Obviously keep in touch with your old ones, but ask them from time to time if they are not busy if they would like to go for a drink etc. If you smother them they will probably ignore you.

]]> Comment on why do people on here presume that they ‘fund’ a teenage pregnancy? by lisagrndy http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/why-do-people-on-here-presume-that-they-fund-a-teenage-pregnancy#comment-4732 lisagrndy Wed, 07 Dec 2011 09:40:18 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/why-do-people-on-here-presume-that-they-fund-a-teenage-pregnancy#comment-4732 i don't and my family are on benefits due to being a carer but i can understand where you are coming from if as mums and dads we were more open about sex and everything to do with sex we hopefully wouldn't have as many teenage/ single mums all my children know more than i do about sex of which i ha vent got a problem we talk about it i give them advice if they ask unfortunately all families aren't like this. prevention education and protection regarding sex is ideal but as we don't live in a ideal world we do our best if it goes pear shaped we are there to support them that's all we can do children don't come with a manuel i don’t and my family are on benefits due to being a carer but i can understand where you are coming from if as mums and dads we were more open about sex and everything to do with sex we hopefully wouldn’t have as many teenage/ single mums all my children know more than i do about sex of which i ha vent got a problem we talk about it i give them advice if they ask unfortunately all families aren’t like this. prevention education and protection regarding sex is ideal but as we don’t live in a ideal world we do our best if it goes pear shaped we are there to support them that’s all we can do children don’t come with a manuel

]]> Comment on why do people on here presume that they ‘fund’ a teenage pregnancy? by Erin H http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/why-do-people-on-here-presume-that-they-fund-a-teenage-pregnancy#comment-4731 Erin H Wed, 07 Dec 2011 08:51:47 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/why-do-people-on-here-presume-that-they-fund-a-teenage-pregnancy#comment-4731 I don't assume anything-I usually cannot guess a person's age for one thing and you are right that many teens may never use help and many older parents do. I hope most people carefully consider getting pregnant and the implications, etc. but I don't begrudge my tax dollars paying for a baby who is a total innocent regardless. Besides you never know someone's life story-maybe they saved and planned for a child at then lost their job or insurance and had no choice but to get help despite best efforts-its just not my place to make assumptions. I don’t assume anything-I usually cannot guess a person’s age for one thing and you are right that many teens may never use help and many older parents do. I hope most people carefully consider getting pregnant and the implications, etc. but I don’t begrudge my tax dollars paying for a baby who is a total innocent regardless. Besides you never know someone’s life story-maybe they saved and planned for a child at then lost their job or insurance and had no choice but to get help despite best efforts-its just not my place to make assumptions.

]]> Comment on why do people on here presume that they ‘fund’ a teenage pregnancy? by memyselfandlotsofclothes http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/why-do-people-on-here-presume-that-they-fund-a-teenage-pregnancy#comment-4730 memyselfandlotsofclothes Wed, 07 Dec 2011 08:22:23 +0000 http://www.youthadvice.org.uk/why-do-people-on-here-presume-that-they-fund-a-teenage-pregnancy#comment-4730 I am 19 and 39 weeks pregnant. My partner and i both worked full time (i am on maternity leave since 35 weeks) he now works full time to support me whilst my wages have gone down to maternity pay, we are not on any benefits whatsoever - we pay rent,gas,electric,tv license,phone&broadband,(not essential but hey!)car tax,insurance etc etc, and have bought everything for our baby - except some things from my mum, but we did not expect help. It is no-one elses fault that we have produced a child, so we worked to get the things we need. I hate it when people look at us (we look younger than 19&20) because i can see that they presume we are on benefits, live in a council house and watch jeremy kyle all day !! I think it is awful that people just presume that pregnant teenagers are all sroungers, i am not saying that some aren't, because some really are and really do not think they should be at work and paying their way through life. But i also believe it is the governments fault for making it so easy to have a free life - i know plenty of teenagers with children who have been scrounging and have everything they need - i don't feel they deserve this when people like me are paying their way through society. I do however think it's awful to stereotype because every single case is different, and no-one knows the situation behind closed doors! I do not look at pregnant people and think 'i'm paying your way' but to be honest, i look at people in my town that i know are on benefits and sit at home all day smoking pot, and think 'ggrrrr i'm paying your way!' I am 19 and 39 weeks pregnant. My partner and i both worked full time (i am on maternity leave since 35 weeks) he now works full time to support me whilst my wages have gone down to maternity pay, we are not on any benefits whatsoever – we pay rent,gas,electric,tv license,phone&broadband,(not essential but hey!)car tax,insurance etc etc, and have bought everything for our baby – except some things from my mum, but we did not expect help. It is no-one elses fault that we have produced a child, so we worked to get the things we need. I hate it when people look at us (we look younger than 19&20) because i can see that they presume we are on benefits, live in a council house and watch jeremy kyle all day !! I think it is awful that people just presume that pregnant teenagers are all sroungers, i am not saying that some aren’t, because some really are and really do not think they should be at work and paying their way through life. But i also believe it is the governments fault for making it so easy to have a free life – i know plenty of teenagers with children who have been scrounging and have everything they need – i don’t feel they deserve this when people like me are paying their way through society. I do however think it’s awful to stereotype because every single case is different, and no-one knows the situation behind closed doors! I do not look at pregnant people and think ‘i’m paying your way’ but to be honest, i look at people in my town that i know are on benefits and sit at home all day smoking pot, and think ‘ggrrrr i’m paying your way!’

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