Question by kacilee60: i’m 17 teen mum broken up with my fiance i really need help?
i’m 17 teen mum with a 16 month old son and my fiance decide he doesn’t want to be with me after being there all through my pregnancy and birth anymore , he is currently sleep in on the sofa till he sort him self some were to go, its been 4 days now we have broke up , i feel like i cant cope , i cant be happy and i even feel suicidal , i try and think of my son but i feel like im fail in to be a good mum, i really want him back so bad , when i see him i want him more and more i go out the way to sob my heart out ,one min he seem like he wants me back , we was sat sharing a trifle out of the same bowl last night and he dose other things like he gonna decide he wants me back , one min he said he need time to think and the new he say in he moving on and cant wait, he wont talk about why he finished me and wont sort it out , i really don’t no what to do any more

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Answer by LaurenChelmsford
Perhaps he is just struggling to be a dad and a fiancée at 17?
Most people of your age want to be put enjoying themselves. So perhaps he is feeling unhappy that he can’t do the things his friends are doing?
There is nothing wrong with having a child young if you are in love and in a strong relationship.
You need to talk about how you are both feeling. Share your thoughts and feelings and let him have his say.
There can be a lot of resentment between couples (of any age) about things that can be easily sorted.
I’m sure things will get better for you.
Keep smiling and enjoy every minute with your baby , they grow up before you know it.
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Question by kacilee60: i’m 17 teen mum broken up with my fiance i really need help?
i’m 17 teen mum with a 16 month old son and my fiance decide he doesn’t want to be with me after being there all through my pregnancy and birth anymore , he is currently sleep in on the sofa till he sort him self some were to go, its been 4 days now we have broke up , i feel like i cant cope , i cant be happy and i even feel suicidal , i try and think of my son but i feel like im fail in to be a good mum, i really want him back so bad , when i see him i want him more and more i go out the way to sob my heart out ,one min he seem like he wants me back , we was sat sharing a trifle out of the same bowl last night and he dose other things like he gonna decide he wants me back , one min he said he need time to think and the new he say in he moving on and cant wait, he wont talk about why he finished me and wont sort it out , i really don’t no what to do any more

Best answer:

Answer by LaurenChelmsford
Perhaps he is just struggling to be a dad and a fiancée at 17?
Most people of your age want to be put enjoying themselves. So perhaps he is feeling unhappy that he can’t do the things his friends are doing?
There is nothing wrong with having a child young if you are in love and in a strong relationship.
You need to talk about how you are both feeling. Share your thoughts and feelings and let him have his say.
There can be a lot of resentment between couples (of any age) about things that can be easily sorted.
I’m sure things will get better for you.
Keep smiling and enjoy every minute with your baby , they grow up before you know it.
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